Hi GamindsocI don't think there should be any raging anxiety in this part of the forum, on this man's topic. Decorum and respect is what he deserves. TDenver has conducted himself with dignity, and his courage in all this has been outstanding. This man has young children, a wife with ms and is now facing the possibility he himself may be ill. Despite this he talks about laughter and facing things head on etc. I guess most members will feel this is a time to offer him support, not to use his case as a stage to get up and voice our fears. Not here and not now. This is a person that started this thread, as I said a father, a husband, someones son, someone who came here for advice. Someone whose profile didnt quite fit bfs, so I don't think many people would be so shallow or tactless as to use this very thread to debate bfs vs als. TD, my thoughts are with you. There have been a few cases on here that have been as far up the ladder as probable (I.e. one up from possible), and have ended up being fine. I hope this will be your outcome, your story also. I will be thinking about you, and I know if your kids were old enough to realise what you are going through, they would be so proud of their dad for maintaining such a good attitude, proud of your strength.HxPerhaps you could pop in some point in the future if it is of any use to you.