Stop negative posts: Quit airing out beefs

[inzTwoToneTunes]

One way to stop negative posts is quit posting them. If you have a beef with someone here, keep it personal. That is why it is called a PM! personal message. Quit airing out your beefs and your frustrations in the open forum. I am sorry I am kind of fire up but there seems to be a few people here that can't control there emotions and "vent" all over the board.Take a walk, punch a bag, meditate, pray.......Whatever, but chill out with your hating, negative post. Quit hanging out your dirty laundry for all to see. Work it out PRIVATELY! If you hate this place so much then why in the world are you still here!? I don't get it. Just check yourself OKDD

 

[InkedMama]

That is a good suggestion but I think the other person on the other end posting the information should do the same. Maybe warn people before they open the message that this may scare or concern people. I get aggrivated and I let my feelings out because I see so many people doing well and then 1 post makes people go crazy and get scared as myself then I get bombarded with e mail.I have always been a defensive person and outspoken. I dont hide my feelings , I dont lie about things, if you dont like what I say dont listen but I am certainly NOT going to lie to make you feel better. Infact if a poster posts and I feel that I am not sure of their condition I dont respond. I apologized for my blow up the other day but people have ran so many of the good helpful people off. Its not good. This place used to be my bfs bible but not so much anymore. I came back to posts updates of my precious little girl that I had 4 months ago and I got sucked in again. I like to help people but you cant help someone that doesnt want to be helped. Point blank.This board as Laurentch said correctly is a board full of hypchondriacs and anxiety. Dont rule me out. I was dx'd with it even from my neurologist. Also with somatization disorder. She told me this was the worse place for someone like me to regardless if I want to help people or not. She has actually looked over this board. She said it would be helpful for someone seeking info on just BFS but it does not stay at just that- people are questioning people that have seen als experts and top neurologists and then they are continuing to go back and see them again and again in which she says that is not healthy. So as you said DD, your right, I shouldnt air out things when I am aggrivated with people on this site but when people bring it to my attention and their scared out of their wits and leaving the board. I am going to say something and say it loud and clear. Thats just who I am. I dont keep things to myself. Even if I should Lovely

 

[avidgamer198]

I have to say, I agree... I come to this place because I can find people who understand what I'm going through. But I also get some satisfaction out of comforting others. I think when I tell others that they are going to be alright it lets me know I need to tell myself the same thing sometimes...

 

[InkedMama]

Same with me..and I've apologized to the board and Double D when i get Mad its like yelling @ myself "YOU IDIOT...YOUR NOT BEING LOGICAL" blah blah blah, perhaps its more of a exercise w/ myself.Tonight I went to a b'day party when I left the house I was twitching and my left arm felt weak w/in 2 margarita's and a glass of wine...NOTHING WAS WRONG WITH ME! What does that tell ya?? Lovely