Anxiety after 2nd EMG Test

Carrilicious

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Hello to all my helpful and adoring friends,

I hope you are all doing well. I took a short break after my last and 2nd emg. I was treading on thin ice after the test and was wondering why the fear was still not subsiding. I was better but not really. It was not what I expected. I felt I was almost in a worse place then before the test. I know it sounds strange but I wasn't doing well at all.

I started self examining again and was finding spots that seemed to me to be atrophy. I was spinning out of control again. I was hiding my fears from everyone except someone I had been talking to via e-mail. I made yet another appt with my original neuro and went with my daughter. I showed him the spots on my hand, feet, and my leg size being different. He examined me AGAIN and did strength testing AGAIN and said no those were not atrophy spots. He said I was very strong.

He said I am becoming VERY concerned with you. I said why can't I shake this. He couldn't give me an answer. He said some people become obsessed with certain illness's and I chose this one. I also said to him If I were his wife what would he say to me. He said Carri if you were my wife, sister, whatever I would say you do not have als but you are losing control. You need to get a grip on this or you going to lose it completely. He then looked at my 4 year old, oblivious to her mothers fears, (well I'm sure oblivious is the wrong choice of words) and said you eventually are going to hurt your children if you don't take control. He made sense. He then perscribed to me more of my anti-depressants. He wanted me to take 3 a day instead of 2.

I walked out of there and said, *beep* you Carri why are you ruining your life like this? I couldn't answer my own question. I realized I need to see a Phsyciatrist instead of a counselor. I am looking into this today. I am also seeing my GP Wed to ask about the meds. I don't want to start getting meds from different docs. I need everyone on the same page.
This has completely taken over my existance but something different happened that day and I have been a bit better ever since. Don't get me wrong I am not even close to being over this but I feel I have to TAKE back my life, twitching and all. I guess the hard part is realizing it may never go away. I am into my 7th month of this and am no worse. I have seen now 8 neuros and have had 2 emgs. (1 of which was extremly thorough! OUCH) There is NOTHING more anyone can do for me except ME.
I have this unfound fear and maybe it will never completely go away. I need to work at it on a daily basis and go back to seeing my counselor.

I decided to take a break from the site these few weeks and my husband and I went away. We then took a short trip to Palm Springs with the kids. I had a great time.

I'm back and now reality sets in. This is where the testing starts.
I just wanted to let you all know where I was at and keep you informed. I have not dropped off the face of the earth. I am here and love all of your support.
For any newbies here this is an amazing place and has been a godsend. I only hope in time I can be the helper instead of the help-ie. Maybe over time.

Love you all with all that I am, Carri :)
 
Basso and Bill

I truly mean this in every sense of these 3 small words.

I would love by the way to be chastised by you Basso..... :mad:


Jk :oops:

Your still kicking friend, Carri
 
Hi Carri. It was my intention not to post to the forum until my 1 year anniversary (nov. 15) but I just happened to be on tonight seeing how everyone was doing and I read a little bit of your post. I didn't read the whole thing and I didn't read anyone's responses because I want to speak from my heart wih my own personal opinions.

I am not trying to be mean but because I love you as my friend and because I have been right where you are at, I need to be nothing less than honest with you. (and myself for that matter because in a sense this letter is written to me as well)


I went through thorough health anxiety and I am about to lose my wife, children and everything I hold dear. You are fast approaching that mark. You have a patient loveing sympathetic husband who is probably at his wits end. You have doctor's who are effing sick of your worry and I truly believe that the more "support" you get from this forum, the more you are catered to, the worse you are going to be ... before you get your feelings hurt, let me explain myself.

I called my neuro so many times that I was forbidden to call their office ever again. And I see you doing the same thing. You are going to burn bridges that will be dfficult, if not impossible to rebuild.

What you need is a dose of tough love my friend. You don't need people holding your hand and saying "there there now it's gonna be OK" You already know its going to be OK.

What you need is honesty. You will NEVER get a 100% guarantee from ANYONE ...EVER ... IN A MILLION YEARS that you are not going to get ALS. But you do know that right now, you DO NOT have it. You have reached the limits of medical science and you are still not satisfied.

This is because your need lies somewhere else. You need to find the strength in yourself to move forward. Whether it's God, your family, whatever you can find that helps you move forward, you need to find it fast. You need to stop spinning your wheels on useless bullshyt and realize that the way you are living is worse than what you are afraid of.

Do you know how many times I looked at myself in the mirror and said, "CUT THE SHYT TROY ... YOU'RE FINE ... GET OVER IT !!!" or how many times I have said "F*** YOU TROY" to myself?

You need to develop a good dose of anger and intolerance to this nonsense and I would highly recommend seeing either a counselor or a psychiatrist. It doesn't mean you're crazy ... hell, you're crazy if you don't go, in my opinion. You need someone you can relate to and trust who is qualified to help you out of this slump.

You've been stuck in 1'st gear long enough. And as your friend, I refuse to let you go where I am currently at. IT SUCKS AND YOU DON'T WANNA BE HERE, TRUST ME ... I'd give almost anything to have nipped this in the bud a LOT sooner.

Don't look for any more shoulders to cry on. Look this BFS problem and ALS perceived problem in the eye and tell it to go F*** itself. It's time to live!!!

When you became a wife and a mother, you committed to something. Don't let the devil's rabbits lead you on a wild chase. Stand up, take a deep breath, look fear in the eye and tell it that it's time to leave or you'll send it home in a coffin.

Take control of this my friend and do it while it's still do-able. Don't wait like I did... do you know how hard it is to unscramble eggs?

I'm sorry if this sounds like a random blurb. I didn't take any time to think this out, I am just typing what I feel and it's probably not very eloquent ...

If I have to take time off of my job and come down there and knock some sense into you, I'll charge you for gas !!! LOL

Move forward my friend and I will stake everything on this statement. YOU DO NOT HAVE ALS. If I could put everything I own on the table and risk losing it all, I would do it because that is how confident I am that you do not have it. If I were a multi-millionare, I'd place every dollar on the table and say, "if you have ALS, then I'll burn the pile to a crisp and go live in a cave !!!" I am THAT confident in you my friend...

I would recommend staying off of this forum for a while and finding that Carri that was in love with her husband and children and gave all of herself to them as a wife and mother. The Carri that was so absorbed with living life that she didn't have time to fret and worry.

I'm serious about that drive too.... I'll do it if I have to ... I'm just east of San Francisco. I could get there in 1 day ... Seriously. If you had the time I'd be willing to meet you and your family and we could all talk. Even at a mutual location 1/2 way or something. I wanna help you but in the right way. I'm not going to cater to your worry, that's just helping the problem grow. However, I am not trying to be insensitive either. Just trying to bring you back to some place in the middle, away from the extremes, in an area that the rest of the world calls LIFE ...

God bless you ...

if you need to call me my cell # is : 925-339-6377
 

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